Two incidences this week, showed me staying calm helps defray a possible problem.
The first one happens at a gas station. As I reached for the pump a man walked up to the pump, he asked if he could pump my gas for a few dollars. I told him I didn’t have a few dollars to offer him but thank you any way. Instead of moving on, he decides to have conversation telling me he didn’t believe I didn’t have any money. I’m just like the rest of the people. They think he’s crazy and they don’t want to help a brother down on his luck.
My inner self wanted to yell, get away from me, however I remembered my kids were in the car, so I remained calm and pumped the gas, while listening to him jabber on. As I finished pumping, he said you look like a good Christian woman, you’re sure you don’t have some change, so I can help you out. I told him, I wish I did, but I don’t carry money on me. I assumed he finally accepted my refusal. I went inside the gas station because I wanted to get a car wash and the pump wasn’t acting right.
As I’m standing line, this woman comes in carrying an ax, yelling at the attendant, “call the police, I’m about to hurt somebody.” The man who was asking me for money comes in, yelling.” You going cut me B****” She told the attendant, “I asked him to get away from my car window and he wouldn’t. Then he started threatening me, call the police.”
The attendants asked the man to go, but he was too hyped up to think about leaving. For a few minutes I thought I was going to witness someone’s death, or maybe be chopped up in the process.
The lady’s friend came in and they were able to go back to their car. I paid for my car wash and exited.
As I sat in the car I thanked God, I’d remained calm with the man. No telling what would have happen if I hadn’t. I definitely didn’t want my children to witness something like that.
The second incident happens at the pharmacy. I was looking at some magazines when this man walks up and says, “You’re beautiful,” I look at him and say thank you. I return to the magazines, hoping Mr. Man will go on his way. Of course not. (For some reason, old men especially the one like him, with not one tooth in his head think I would be interested in them)
He decides to hold a conversation. I so want to yell, get away from me. However I remember the ding bat at the gas station and remain calm. I listen to him babble on until he finally realizes, I’m not interested. He goes on down the aisle and, I say Thank you Jesus.
I know it’s my nature to go off when I don’t want to be bothered, but I’m learning sometimes its best to remain calm.
Friday, March 31, 2006
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Are You A House Fan
I’m a House fan. I just love that arrogant doctor. When I first watched the show I kept trying to figure out where I saw Hugh from. Last month I found out he was the daddy from the Stuart Little movies and he was in Sense and Sensibilities, one of my favorite movies.
He definitely didn’t fit the mold for House.
Tuesday night I watched and it was the first time I saw him ride his motorcycle. They named him one of the sexiest men on t.v. and I was wondering why. However after seeing him on the motorcycle, I could see a little sexy.
He kills me because he says what’s on his mind. Doesn’t worry about how it will affect others. I wonder what the world would be like if we all did that. CRAZY!
He definitely didn’t fit the mold for House.
Tuesday night I watched and it was the first time I saw him ride his motorcycle. They named him one of the sexiest men on t.v. and I was wondering why. However after seeing him on the motorcycle, I could see a little sexy.
He kills me because he says what’s on his mind. Doesn’t worry about how it will affect others. I wonder what the world would be like if we all did that. CRAZY!
SPRING BREAK
I had this bright idea to take a few days off to spend time with my children while they were on Spring Break. A friend of the family offered a hotel room for two days and we were off.
For a week my children asked, is today the day we go to the hotel. We packed the night before and my daughter said she was too excited. “Are you too excited Mama?” I said I was looking forward to it, I didn’t know about excited.
My husband drives us to the hotel, which is Earth City about thirty five minutes away from our home. We feel like we’re in another city. We arrive at the hotel, but the room isn’t ready and we have to wait for about fifteen minutes. Which means, we hear, “what’s taking so long?”
We did have a little entertainment from the many robins, talking to themselves beside the car. There were also men cleaning the hotel windows. The kids wanted to know why they didn’t go fast instead of slow as they pulled themselves up on the outside of the hotel.
Finally our room was ready. We went up and decided to take a tour after we put up our suitcases. To our horror, there was no swimming pool, Jacuzzi or game room. What kind of hotel was this? My kids wanted to know. “What are we going to do? This is boring.”
My husband and I tried to get them excited about ordering room services and watching King Kong. I think we had their attention until the movie was over.
“What are we going to do now?” Sleep I said, considering it was after 12.
Remind me next time I get my bright ideas to have a suite instead of a room with two beds. Those two blessings of mine were like little ants jumping on everything. I was thankful it was only two instead of the four I thought I would have when I was dreaming of having children.
Don’t get me wrong, I love my children, but being shut up in a one room with them can drive anyone crazy. Thank God for David and Busters. We had a blast burning off a little of their never ending energy. I’ve never been to D&B. It was fun, like a chucky cheese for grown ups.
I will say I’m looking forward to Spring Break next year. I think we’ve started a new family tradition. Next year I will be getting a suite.
For a week my children asked, is today the day we go to the hotel. We packed the night before and my daughter said she was too excited. “Are you too excited Mama?” I said I was looking forward to it, I didn’t know about excited.
My husband drives us to the hotel, which is Earth City about thirty five minutes away from our home. We feel like we’re in another city. We arrive at the hotel, but the room isn’t ready and we have to wait for about fifteen minutes. Which means, we hear, “what’s taking so long?”
We did have a little entertainment from the many robins, talking to themselves beside the car. There were also men cleaning the hotel windows. The kids wanted to know why they didn’t go fast instead of slow as they pulled themselves up on the outside of the hotel.
Finally our room was ready. We went up and decided to take a tour after we put up our suitcases. To our horror, there was no swimming pool, Jacuzzi or game room. What kind of hotel was this? My kids wanted to know. “What are we going to do? This is boring.”
My husband and I tried to get them excited about ordering room services and watching King Kong. I think we had their attention until the movie was over.
“What are we going to do now?” Sleep I said, considering it was after 12.
Remind me next time I get my bright ideas to have a suite instead of a room with two beds. Those two blessings of mine were like little ants jumping on everything. I was thankful it was only two instead of the four I thought I would have when I was dreaming of having children.
Don’t get me wrong, I love my children, but being shut up in a one room with them can drive anyone crazy. Thank God for David and Busters. We had a blast burning off a little of their never ending energy. I’ve never been to D&B. It was fun, like a chucky cheese for grown ups.
I will say I’m looking forward to Spring Break next year. I think we’ve started a new family tradition. Next year I will be getting a suite.
Sunday, March 19, 2006
Author Intro - Deborah Piccurelli
Each Monday See Ya On The Net will introduce you to some of the hottest authors in Christian fiction and non fiction. Our guest today is Deborah Piccurelli.
SYOTN: Please give the readers a brief bio on you the person and the writer.
Deborah Piccurelli: I'm married with two grown sons. In my spare time, I like to read (of course), and spend time with my family. I belong to a nondenominational church where I love to attend our ladies Bible Study.
As a writer, I am a first-time novelist, and now working on a new series that I'm very excited about. I've also had an article published in my local newspaper on the uncertainties of embryonic stem cell research.
My goal through my books is to impact readers' lives for Christ.
SYOTN: Tell us about your current book?
PICCURELLI: In In the Midst of Deceit, following a near-fatal skydiving disaster, a driven financial expert enlists the aid of a spiritually grounded woman to determine who wants him dead. It was released by Jireh Publishing Company in March 2004.
SYOTN: Writing this book, what did you learn about yourself and God?
PICCURELLI: What I learned about myself, I guess, was that writing novels is an integral part of who I am. Also, I learned that I could really do it - finish a book and have it published.
What I learned about God is that He is working through me in my writing. I'm really just an instrument, and he equips me with whatever I need to get his message across.
SYOTN: What aspect of God do you most hope readers will take away after reading your book?
PICCURELLI: That he loves all of us, no matter who we are, or our position in life. That we all have a chance to enter His kingdom. That without Him we can do nothing, but with Him all things are possible. And that no matter what our circumstances, we can live the abundant life He intends for us.
SYOTN: Tell us about your publishing experience?
PICCURELLI: Well, of course I originally got numerous rejections, just as all writers do. But after a few years, I finally got that call two weeks after submitting my manuscript. After that, it seemed like forever before the book was actually released, with lots of work in between. Of course, you have new projects to keep your mind off of it, though. But when you actually hold that book in your hands, it all seems worth it. Then the hard part comes: marketing. The amount an author has to do varies depending on which publisher you've contracted with. Some of us have more to do than others.
But I love all of it, and don't see myself quitting for a long, long time. Maybe never.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other writers would understand?
PICCURELLI: Well, I'm a newer writer myself, so I don't know if I'm in a position to answer that. I guess I could say that there may be some beginning writers out there who need to understand that they should study the market and pay attention to what publishers want. Some writers think they can still write the manuscript and send the entire thing out to about twenty publishers and assume they'll get an offer.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other non-writers would understand?
PICCURELLI: How long and slow the process is from beginning a story until it gets published.
SYOTN: Do you have any promotional tips for writers?
PICCURELLI: One would be to get interviewed on blogs like this one. LOL! Another would be to get reviews from websites that receive a lot of hits, or publications with a large circulation. There is really so much more, and lots of stuff I haven't even thought of myself. It would be a good idea to purchase books on marketing by experts. There are lots of them out there. I've just gotten one myself called You Can Market Your Book by Carmen Leal.
SYOTN: What was the last book to keep you up at night reading it?
PICCURELLI: Actually, I 'm reading one now by Brandilyn Collins called Web of Lies. It's a real ride!
SYOTN: What resources do you use on the net?
PICCURELLI: I belong to several writer's groups, which are always a great resource. They always offer members a plethora of benefits, services, and information.
SYOTN: How can readers get in contact with you? (mail, email, website)
PICCURELLI: They can contact me at debwrites@netcarrier.com . If they'd like to know about me or my book they can go to http://www.roadtoromance.ca/first_timers/deborahpiccurelli.htm .
I want to thank you for having me as a guest on your blog, LaShaunda. It's been a real pleasure!
SYOTN: Deborah, thanks for taking time to introduce yourself and your book. I wish you many blessings with your new career.
SYOTN: Please give the readers a brief bio on you the person and the writer.
Deborah Piccurelli: I'm married with two grown sons. In my spare time, I like to read (of course), and spend time with my family. I belong to a nondenominational church where I love to attend our ladies Bible Study.
As a writer, I am a first-time novelist, and now working on a new series that I'm very excited about. I've also had an article published in my local newspaper on the uncertainties of embryonic stem cell research.
My goal through my books is to impact readers' lives for Christ.
SYOTN: Tell us about your current book?
PICCURELLI: In In the Midst of Deceit, following a near-fatal skydiving disaster, a driven financial expert enlists the aid of a spiritually grounded woman to determine who wants him dead. It was released by Jireh Publishing Company in March 2004.
SYOTN: Writing this book, what did you learn about yourself and God?
PICCURELLI: What I learned about myself, I guess, was that writing novels is an integral part of who I am. Also, I learned that I could really do it - finish a book and have it published.
What I learned about God is that He is working through me in my writing. I'm really just an instrument, and he equips me with whatever I need to get his message across.
SYOTN: What aspect of God do you most hope readers will take away after reading your book?
PICCURELLI: That he loves all of us, no matter who we are, or our position in life. That we all have a chance to enter His kingdom. That without Him we can do nothing, but with Him all things are possible. And that no matter what our circumstances, we can live the abundant life He intends for us.
SYOTN: Tell us about your publishing experience?
PICCURELLI: Well, of course I originally got numerous rejections, just as all writers do. But after a few years, I finally got that call two weeks after submitting my manuscript. After that, it seemed like forever before the book was actually released, with lots of work in between. Of course, you have new projects to keep your mind off of it, though. But when you actually hold that book in your hands, it all seems worth it. Then the hard part comes: marketing. The amount an author has to do varies depending on which publisher you've contracted with. Some of us have more to do than others.
But I love all of it, and don't see myself quitting for a long, long time. Maybe never.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other writers would understand?
PICCURELLI: Well, I'm a newer writer myself, so I don't know if I'm in a position to answer that. I guess I could say that there may be some beginning writers out there who need to understand that they should study the market and pay attention to what publishers want. Some writers think they can still write the manuscript and send the entire thing out to about twenty publishers and assume they'll get an offer.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other non-writers would understand?
PICCURELLI: How long and slow the process is from beginning a story until it gets published.
SYOTN: Do you have any promotional tips for writers?
PICCURELLI: One would be to get interviewed on blogs like this one. LOL! Another would be to get reviews from websites that receive a lot of hits, or publications with a large circulation. There is really so much more, and lots of stuff I haven't even thought of myself. It would be a good idea to purchase books on marketing by experts. There are lots of them out there. I've just gotten one myself called You Can Market Your Book by Carmen Leal.
SYOTN: What was the last book to keep you up at night reading it?
PICCURELLI: Actually, I 'm reading one now by Brandilyn Collins called Web of Lies. It's a real ride!
SYOTN: What resources do you use on the net?
PICCURELLI: I belong to several writer's groups, which are always a great resource. They always offer members a plethora of benefits, services, and information.
SYOTN: How can readers get in contact with you? (mail, email, website)
PICCURELLI: They can contact me at debwrites@netcarrier.com . If they'd like to know about me or my book they can go to http://www.roadtoromance.ca/first_timers/deborahpiccurelli.htm .
I want to thank you for having me as a guest on your blog, LaShaunda. It's been a real pleasure!
SYOTN: Deborah, thanks for taking time to introduce yourself and your book. I wish you many blessings with your new career.
Monday, March 13, 2006
Author Intro - Pamela J. Hudson
Each Monday See Ya On The Net will introduce you to some of the hottest authors in Christian fiction and non fiction. Our first guest is Pamela J. Hudson.
See Ya On The Net: Tell us about your current book?
Pamela J. Hudson: HELP! for Your Leadership
(Healing, Encouragement and Loving Perspective for Overwhelmed Leaders) with accompanying Leader’s Self-Care Workbook
SYOTN: Writing this book, what did you learn about yourself and God?
HUDSON: I learned I could write best when I allowed the Spirit of God to lead me. I found that the presence of the Spirit makes the difference, it was not me.
SYOTN: What aspect of God do you most hope readers will take away after reading your book?
HUDSON: He is a God who wants you to be effective, efficient and empowered in all that you do. You can be a leader with characteristics liken to Jesus and make a difference in others.
SYOTN: Tell us about your publishing experience?
HUDSON: It was so new to me and sometimes stressful as you know it involves more than money, it’s your time, emotions and energy.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other writers would understand?
HUDSON: Writers write, it is their passion and you need to discipline yourself to make this a natural habit and extension to who you are.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other non-writers would understand?
HUDSON: Although, laborious it is a part of your personality and represents the essence of your soul.
SYOTN: Do you have any promotional tips for writers?
HUDSON: Consider joining associations and organizations that promote writing and books along with enthusiasm when talking about your work.
SYOTN: What was the last book to keep you up at night reading it?
HUDSON: Mary Higgins Clark, any of her books will keep me reading all night. Lori Wick is another author who is exciting, The Mill Pond was one I read while in Africa.
SYOTN: What resources do you use on the net?
HUDSON: Because I am a researcher, I use multiple resources and locate so many more. My bookmark is so full!
SYOTN: How can readers get in contact with you? (mail, email, website)
HUDSON: Email: wrapword02@yahoo.com or www.advancewithpam.org or
19785 W. 12 Mile Rd., Suite 242, Southfield, MI 48076
See Ya On The Net: Tell us about your current book?
Pamela J. Hudson: HELP! for Your Leadership
(Healing, Encouragement and Loving Perspective for Overwhelmed Leaders) with accompanying Leader’s Self-Care Workbook
SYOTN: Writing this book, what did you learn about yourself and God?
HUDSON: I learned I could write best when I allowed the Spirit of God to lead me. I found that the presence of the Spirit makes the difference, it was not me.
SYOTN: What aspect of God do you most hope readers will take away after reading your book?
HUDSON: He is a God who wants you to be effective, efficient and empowered in all that you do. You can be a leader with characteristics liken to Jesus and make a difference in others.
SYOTN: Tell us about your publishing experience?
HUDSON: It was so new to me and sometimes stressful as you know it involves more than money, it’s your time, emotions and energy.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other writers would understand?
HUDSON: Writers write, it is their passion and you need to discipline yourself to make this a natural habit and extension to who you are.
SYOTN: What one thing about writing do you wish other non-writers would understand?
HUDSON: Although, laborious it is a part of your personality and represents the essence of your soul.
SYOTN: Do you have any promotional tips for writers?
HUDSON: Consider joining associations and organizations that promote writing and books along with enthusiasm when talking about your work.
SYOTN: What was the last book to keep you up at night reading it?
HUDSON: Mary Higgins Clark, any of her books will keep me reading all night. Lori Wick is another author who is exciting, The Mill Pond was one I read while in Africa.
SYOTN: What resources do you use on the net?
HUDSON: Because I am a researcher, I use multiple resources and locate so many more. My bookmark is so full!
SYOTN: How can readers get in contact with you? (mail, email, website)
HUDSON: Email: wrapword02@yahoo.com or www.advancewithpam.org or
19785 W. 12 Mile Rd., Suite 242, Southfield, MI 48076
Friday, March 03, 2006
Are you being a blessing to others?
Last night at bible study, my Pastor asked “are you being a blessing to others?”
My daily prayer is how I can be a blessing to someone else. I know it’s hard to bless someone else, but I know I have a better life when I do. I also know that my life on this earth means something, than a person who goes to work everyday.
I thought about a message I received from someone saying how much they appreciated my ministry. I never thought of what I did as a ministry. However as I looked over what I do for other writers, I realized that I in my own small way, I am blessing others.
I know I feel blessed meeting all these writers who share my love of writing. It gives me joy being able to tell others about their books. I know what books means to me and how they have touched my life. I want to give someone else that warm fuzzy feeling I get when I read a good book.
In the coming months, I will be introducing you to these writers I’ve met and hope their books are a blessing to you. Stop by on Mondays and meet the authors who are spreading the word of our Lord.
My daily prayer is how I can be a blessing to someone else. I know it’s hard to bless someone else, but I know I have a better life when I do. I also know that my life on this earth means something, than a person who goes to work everyday.
I thought about a message I received from someone saying how much they appreciated my ministry. I never thought of what I did as a ministry. However as I looked over what I do for other writers, I realized that I in my own small way, I am blessing others.
I know I feel blessed meeting all these writers who share my love of writing. It gives me joy being able to tell others about their books. I know what books means to me and how they have touched my life. I want to give someone else that warm fuzzy feeling I get when I read a good book.
In the coming months, I will be introducing you to these writers I’ve met and hope their books are a blessing to you. Stop by on Mondays and meet the authors who are spreading the word of our Lord.
Wednesday, March 01, 2006
2006 Goals
MARCH
100 pages to finish manuscript (4 pages a day)
Make sure 3 chapters are ready for submission
Revise query letter
Write two articles - Wrote article on Online Presence
Submit two articles - Submitted article (OP) to MORWA Newsletter
FEB
I would like to reach 300 pages at the end of the month. I currently have 176. - Reached 210
I'm also working on a query letter to submit in March. - Did not do.
* Found out I needed to use Times New Roman on manuscripts and WORD word count. Which means my manuscript isn't ready for submission.
100 pages to finish manuscript (4 pages a day)
Make sure 3 chapters are ready for submission
Revise query letter
Write two articles - Wrote article on Online Presence
Submit two articles - Submitted article (OP) to MORWA Newsletter
FEB
I would like to reach 300 pages at the end of the month. I currently have 176. - Reached 210
I'm also working on a query letter to submit in March. - Did not do.
* Found out I needed to use Times New Roman on manuscripts and WORD word count. Which means my manuscript isn't ready for submission.
Tuesday, February 28, 2006
In Memory of - Don Knotts
We also lost funny man Don Knotts this weekend. I loved the movie he played in where he turned into a fish. I hope to show it to my children one day.
Don Knotts
My deepest sympathy to his family and friends
In Memory Of - Octavia Butler
Octavia Butler
Science Fiction Writer
My deepest sympathy
to Ms. Butler’s family and friends.
Monday, February 27, 2006
My First Speech
This weekend, Ann Clay, a published author invited me to speak in front of an English Lit class at a local college. It was my first time speaking about my experiences as a writer and publisher of an online magazine. I think it went well. The students asked a few questions. I think they wanted to ask more but were shy as we writers can be sometimes.
At this college was a fellow MORWA member, Pricilla. We talked about writing and she shared her experiences with submitting. We both felt as if we had attended a MORWA meeting.
I also met Rose Beavers who is a writer and book publisher. I enjoyed talking with her and Ann about the book publishing business. They have definitely piqued my interest in self publishing.
I shared with a church member that I write. He was surprised, but very encouraging. His words inspired me to continue down the path and to continue letting God.
I’m in the process of getting my book ready for submission. I realized after converting it to Times New Roman that this lowers the page count and if I use the Word word count, my word count is lower. Instead of being frustrated, I’ve decided to give the book one last look over and see if there is something I can do to bump up the word count. Say a prayer for me, because I need some more words.
At this college was a fellow MORWA member, Pricilla. We talked about writing and she shared her experiences with submitting. We both felt as if we had attended a MORWA meeting.
I also met Rose Beavers who is a writer and book publisher. I enjoyed talking with her and Ann about the book publishing business. They have definitely piqued my interest in self publishing.
I shared with a church member that I write. He was surprised, but very encouraging. His words inspired me to continue down the path and to continue letting God.
I’m in the process of getting my book ready for submission. I realized after converting it to Times New Roman that this lowers the page count and if I use the Word word count, my word count is lower. Instead of being frustrated, I’ve decided to give the book one last look over and see if there is something I can do to bump up the word count. Say a prayer for me, because I need some more words.
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
Are You Lonely?
My daughter asked me this question. I replied, "I have you and CJ I can never be lonely." She then said, "what about when you didn't have us?"
I thought about it and I realized I never felt lonely. When I did, I called out to the Lord. Even when I wasn't a Christian, I talked to him. I knew he was there listening when no one else was.
Isn't that a wonderful feeling to know that you are never alone. God is with you always.
Are you lonely? Call to him, he'll listen.
I thought about it and I realized I never felt lonely. When I did, I called out to the Lord. Even when I wasn't a Christian, I talked to him. I knew he was there listening when no one else was.
Isn't that a wonderful feeling to know that you are never alone. God is with you always.
Are you lonely? Call to him, he'll listen.
Monday, February 20, 2006
AUTHOR INTRO - Sabra Robinson
I had the pleasure of meeting Sabra online when she introduced her first book, Micky, Ticky, Boo Says Hello. I interviewed her on SORMAG and I’ve kept in touch with her over the years. She has gone on to do great things with her writing.
See Ya On The Net: Please give a brief bio on you the person and the writer.
Sabra Robinson: I'd be glad to!
Me, the person
I'm the 9th child out of ten children and originally from Baltimore, Maryland where I am a proud alumni of Morgan State University.
I currently assist in the youth ministry at my church and enjoy singing on the praise team.
In the Summer of 2006, I will be attending Billy Graham's Seminary school, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary here in Charlotte.
In addition to writing my first multicultural children's picture book, Micky, Ticky, Boo! Says Hello, my vision to animate my characters for film and television allowed me to become recognized as a finalist out of over three hundred applicants for the ABC/Disney New Talent Development program for 2003.
Me, the writer
I am the founding editor of the inspirational anthology, The Lost Sheep: How I Got And Am Still Getting Over the Hump, an annual inspirational anthology which features true stories of God's restoration.
My first published book, Micky, Ticky, Boo! Says Hello, is a multicultural picture book of which I was a finalist for the ABC New Talent/Development program for my proposal to animate the characters for film.
I am also a member of the following professional organizations: The Christian Writers Fellowship International (CWFI), The African American Children's Writers and Illustrators (AACBWI), The Atlanta Urban Mediamakers Association (aUMi) and soon to form a Christian ministry, The Lost Sheep Ministries.
I anticipate writing for all age groups and anticipates featuring my children's book characters on film.
SYOTN: What is your current book and what inspired you to write it?
ROBINSON: Thanks for asking! My current book is "The Lost Sheep: How I Got Over The Hump." I was feeling overwhelmed with emotion because I was actually "lost." The Holy Spirit inspired me and guided me throughout my writing process.
SYOTN: When you're not writing, what do you like to do in your spare time?
ROBINSON: Go to dinner and a movie with the family...oh, and to Staples (so my daughter can play with the Easy Button!)
SYOTN: What was the most profound lesson you learned while writing this novel?
ROBINSON: Well, there is a lesson I learned before and after. Before writing, I learned that all I had to do was call on the name of the Lord for my needs for the project and He provided. When I needed an illustrator, Jolene Myles came along. When I needed a couple of pair of eyes, He sent me Brian and Tracie. When I needed a graphics person, He sent me Tracie again. It was wonderful in knowing He had my back!
I would also have to include that after writing the novel, one of the contributors strayed away from Christianity. It broke my heart because I knew this person for a couple of years. But the Lord just told me to pray - and I'm still praying. The lesson I learned from this is the power of prayer. Now, my desire is to be an effective intercessory prayer warrior for the body of Christ.
SYOTN: Is being a published writer what you thought it would be like?
ROBINSON: Being published is just like any other job to me. I don't see myself any different from anyone else, only that I have the experience and knowledge of self publishing a book.
SYOTN: How are you marketing your book and what are your thoughts about the importance of marketing for authors?
ROBINSON: At the moment, my book is available through Amazon.com and Lulu.com for those interested in purchasing a copy (please look for updated information on my Web site for updated distributors). However, I've spent most of my investments in giving books away to church members, friends and online acquaintances. My main goal was to reach the "sheep."
SYOTN: What advice would you give to a writer trying to get published?
ROBINSON: If employed, take some time off work at various increments. At times, I took a week, then one-to-two days if it was a long weekend. I spaced out my vacations several months in advance according to when the final product was set to be published.
-Join a writers community, whether it be a physical meeting place or online.
-Get your worked reviewed by those individuals in certain areas of your writing that you are not sure of. Because a portion of my book is comparable to a memoir (my personal chapters) I consulted my pastor, my friend who is an Evangelist and family members on certain situations for clarity on dates, people, and scriptures.
- Take chances and be prepared to SPEND MONEY!
-As always, be prayerful.
Thank you Sabra for taking time to introduce yourself to my readers. Many blessings to you and your writing. Stop by Sabra’s site and say hi.
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
African American History Month Contest
In honor of African American History Month, See Ya On The Net is hosting a contest.
Each Wednesday for the Month of February I will feature a contest.
The contest, Do You Know What These African American Writers Wrote?
Below are four pictures of African American writers. The first reader to leave in the comment section the correct titles of their works is the winner of one of the prizes donated by Warner books and Baker's Books. (one win per blog)
Want another chance at winning - Check out the contest at SORMAG
FEB 15th
FEB - 8
FEB - 1 - WINNER - Kim W
Gwendolyn Brooks -In the Mecca
Ann Clay - Waving From the Heart
http://www.annclay.com/
Fredrick Douglas - My Bondage and My Freedom
Gwyneth Bolton - I'm Gonna Make You Love Me
http://www.gwynethbolton.com
Each Wednesday for the Month of February I will feature a contest.
The contest, Do You Know What These African American Writers Wrote?
Below are four pictures of African American writers. The first reader to leave in the comment section the correct titles of their works is the winner of one of the prizes donated by Warner books and Baker's Books. (one win per blog)
Want another chance at winning - Check out the contest at SORMAG
FEB 15th
FEB - 8
FEB - 1 - WINNER - Kim W
Gwendolyn Brooks -In the Mecca
Ann Clay - Waving From the Heart
http://www.annclay.com/
Fredrick Douglas - My Bondage and My Freedom
Gwyneth Bolton - I'm Gonna Make You Love Me
http://www.gwynethbolton.com
Friday, February 10, 2006
AUTHOR INTRO - Brenda Coulter
I met Brenda through her blog. She has some interesting opinions that keep me coming back daily. When I asked her to participate in the online conference, she was right there, so that gives her a few points on my book. Brenda writes inspirational romance. I thought an interview would be a nice way to plug her book and introduce you to another writer.
See Ya On The Net: Please give a brief bio on you the person and the writer.
Brenda Coulter: I've been married for 30 years and was a contented stay-at-home mom for almost two decades. I baked bread from scratch, volunteered in our public schools, and was heavily involved with church activities. When my "baby" was preparing to enter high school and the mommy years were winding down, I began looking around for some new ways to spend my time. I had never tried writing fiction before, and I'll never know what made me think I could write a novel, but it turned out that I could. When that first manuscript sold (just over a year after I started writing), I knew what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.
SYOTN: What is your current book and what inspired you to write it?
COULTER: The hero of A Family Forever is a semi-pro cyclist and is very loosely based on my 23-year-old son, who has been crazy about bikes all his life. His first love was mountain biking, but he now rides and races track bikes. He and I have been watching cycling events on TV for years, so all the "bike stuff" in the book came right off the top of my head and was a blast to write. Oh, I should add that my hero's physical attributes are based on cyclist George Hincapie, Lance Armstrong's faithful workhorse.
SYOTN: When you're not writing, what do you like to do in your spare time?
COULTER: I'm a blogging maniac. But I occasionally tear myself away from the computer to spend time in the garden. I love my roses! I also enjoy hunting through antique stores for bone-china teacups.
SYOTN: If you could pick one of your books for a movie, which one would you,
choose, and whom would you cast in it?
COULTER: Well, I've published only two books, and I'm not sure either of them would make a good movie without a whole lotta quality screenwriting to make them more visual. And I think I'd rather see my characters played by unknown actors rather than big names.
SYOTN: Is being a published writer what you thought it would be like?
COULTER: I got The Call about 14 months after I decided to try writing a novel, so it wasn't as though I'd spent years dreaming about what it would be like. I'm not sure I ever thought about it at all.
SYOTN: What advice would you give to writer trying to get published?
COULTER: Nobody's going to hold your hand and lead you to publication. If you don't have the gumption to figure out what you want and how to get it, you'll probably never be published. So if you really want it, go after it with everything you've got.
SYOTN: In honor of Valentine's what would you consider a perfect valentines gift?
COULTER: Roses, chocolates, and jewelry are always nice, but no gift on earth beats a handwritten love letter.
Read the first chapter of A Family Forever, an inspirational romance coming in March; pick up some romance-writing tips; and browse several "afternoon tea" pages at http://BrendaCoulter.com
Sign up for my quarterly(ish) newsletter by sending a blank e-mail to
Brenda-Coulter-subscribe@googlegroups.com
Read my daily musings on "writing, life, and the writing life" at No rules. Just write.
http://BrendaCoulter.Blogspot.com
See Ya On The Net: Please give a brief bio on you the person and the writer.
Brenda Coulter: I've been married for 30 years and was a contented stay-at-home mom for almost two decades. I baked bread from scratch, volunteered in our public schools, and was heavily involved with church activities. When my "baby" was preparing to enter high school and the mommy years were winding down, I began looking around for some new ways to spend my time. I had never tried writing fiction before, and I'll never know what made me think I could write a novel, but it turned out that I could. When that first manuscript sold (just over a year after I started writing), I knew what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.SYOTN: What is your current book and what inspired you to write it?
COULTER: The hero of A Family Forever is a semi-pro cyclist and is very loosely based on my 23-year-old son, who has been crazy about bikes all his life. His first love was mountain biking, but he now rides and races track bikes. He and I have been watching cycling events on TV for years, so all the "bike stuff" in the book came right off the top of my head and was a blast to write. Oh, I should add that my hero's physical attributes are based on cyclist George Hincapie, Lance Armstrong's faithful workhorse.
SYOTN: When you're not writing, what do you like to do in your spare time?
COULTER: I'm a blogging maniac. But I occasionally tear myself away from the computer to spend time in the garden. I love my roses! I also enjoy hunting through antique stores for bone-china teacups.
SYOTN: If you could pick one of your books for a movie, which one would you,
choose, and whom would you cast in it?
COULTER: Well, I've published only two books, and I'm not sure either of them would make a good movie without a whole lotta quality screenwriting to make them more visual. And I think I'd rather see my characters played by unknown actors rather than big names.
SYOTN: Is being a published writer what you thought it would be like?
COULTER: I got The Call about 14 months after I decided to try writing a novel, so it wasn't as though I'd spent years dreaming about what it would be like. I'm not sure I ever thought about it at all.
SYOTN: What advice would you give to writer trying to get published?
COULTER: Nobody's going to hold your hand and lead you to publication. If you don't have the gumption to figure out what you want and how to get it, you'll probably never be published. So if you really want it, go after it with everything you've got.
SYOTN: In honor of Valentine's what would you consider a perfect valentines gift?
COULTER: Roses, chocolates, and jewelry are always nice, but no gift on earth beats a handwritten love letter.
Read the first chapter of A Family Forever, an inspirational romance coming in March; pick up some romance-writing tips; and browse several "afternoon tea" pages at http://BrendaCoulter.com
Sign up for my quarterly(ish) newsletter by sending a blank e-mail to
Brenda-Coulter-subscribe@googlegroups.com
Read my daily musings on "writing, life, and the writing life" at No rules. Just write.
http://BrendaCoulter.Blogspot.com
Are you reading?
I’ve interviewed many authors over the years. One thing that surprises me is how many who say they don’t read anymore. Most say they don’t have time to read.
I remember before I had children, I read three or four books a week. I enjoyed spending the day in bed with a good book. While I was pregnant a co-worker told me to enjoy my reading why I can, because once the children come there won’t be time. She was right; however as a book lover I decided I wouldn’t give up my books. I made it my treat for when I had time to spare or when I completed a project. I try to read at least one book a month.
This year I’m trying to read one book a week. It’s hard sometimes because life gets in the way, but I make it my business to read.
Why?
For enjoyment, I love being transported into a new world or learn about a place I’ve never been. I like meeting new characters and falling in love with them. I know it helps my mind continue to function. With non-fiction I learn how to improve myself. For example, some books help me to see how I can improve my writing, what I’m doing wrong, what I’m doing right.
I think this last reason is why many writers don’t read.
This week I’m reading a book by one of my favorite authors, Rochelle Alers and listen to a book on tape by Carly Phillips. WOW these women are blowing me away with their words. I’m thinking I’ll never get to their level, what was I thinking.
These type of thoughts can destroy your ego and take you away from what you’re doing. This week I understand why others don’t read. It’s hard to read someone and then compare yourself to their work.
I also learned that you can’t compare yourself to others you only can write the way you write. If everyone wrote the same there would be one style of writing and one genre. People probably wouldn’t read.
The books I’m reading continue to inspire me to be the best writer I can be. Yes I still think what was I thinking. Then I turn the page and know my name is LaShaunda, I have my own unique voice. One day, someone is going to read my book and think, I’ll never get to her level. Now that’s wild.
Keep reading! Make time to read. Read outside your genre.
You learn from each book even the bad ones. Each book will help you make your book a better book.
Happy reading,
LaShaunda
I remember before I had children, I read three or four books a week. I enjoyed spending the day in bed with a good book. While I was pregnant a co-worker told me to enjoy my reading why I can, because once the children come there won’t be time. She was right; however as a book lover I decided I wouldn’t give up my books. I made it my treat for when I had time to spare or when I completed a project. I try to read at least one book a month.
This year I’m trying to read one book a week. It’s hard sometimes because life gets in the way, but I make it my business to read.
Why?
For enjoyment, I love being transported into a new world or learn about a place I’ve never been. I like meeting new characters and falling in love with them. I know it helps my mind continue to function. With non-fiction I learn how to improve myself. For example, some books help me to see how I can improve my writing, what I’m doing wrong, what I’m doing right.
I think this last reason is why many writers don’t read.
This week I’m reading a book by one of my favorite authors, Rochelle Alers and listen to a book on tape by Carly Phillips. WOW these women are blowing me away with their words. I’m thinking I’ll never get to their level, what was I thinking.
These type of thoughts can destroy your ego and take you away from what you’re doing. This week I understand why others don’t read. It’s hard to read someone and then compare yourself to their work.
I also learned that you can’t compare yourself to others you only can write the way you write. If everyone wrote the same there would be one style of writing and one genre. People probably wouldn’t read.
The books I’m reading continue to inspire me to be the best writer I can be. Yes I still think what was I thinking. Then I turn the page and know my name is LaShaunda, I have my own unique voice. One day, someone is going to read my book and think, I’ll never get to her level. Now that’s wild.
Keep reading! Make time to read. Read outside your genre.
You learn from each book even the bad ones. Each book will help you make your book a better book.
Happy reading,
LaShaunda
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
HIV/AIDS does it affect you?
Sunday night I watched a commercial that reminded me of how I use to be. The commercial was about HIV/AIDS. In the commercial the lady said she wasn’t affected by HIV/AIDS because she didn’t have it or know anyone who did. It didn’t exist in her community, so it really didn’t faze her. Then we see her traveling overseas to Africa. She meets all these children with the disease and she realized just because she doesn’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
Why do we think this way?
HIV/AIDS didn’t affect my life either. The closest to my community was hearing about Majic Johnson contracting HIV. We were all shocked, how naive an uneducated I was back then.
HIV/AIDS stepped on my doorstep about twenty five years ago with a family friend. Her husband gave her HIV and later died. Again I was shocked, mainly due to miseducation. I had never heard of a husband giving the disease to his wife. However after learning more about the disease I found many women contract the disease from their husbands.
My friend is still living, praise God. She has good medicine and she changed her way of living. She’s probably healthier than some of us who think we are.
She’s one of the happiest people I know. She knows her purpose in life. She’s a caretaker of cats. She takes in sick cats and nurses them back to health. It’s amazing to me because I believe the stray cats communicate to others about her, because they show up on her doorstep. She makes them well and a lucky family adopts them.
Today is national HIV/AIDS day. My prayers of strength and courage go up for those who have this disease.
I say to those who think as I did, open your eyes and see this disease affects you and your community. Just because you don’t personally know someone who has it doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect you. Learn about HIV/AIDS, talk about it in your communities, in your churches. It does exist and I pray one day with the help from God it won’t.
Why do we think this way?
HIV/AIDS didn’t affect my life either. The closest to my community was hearing about Majic Johnson contracting HIV. We were all shocked, how naive an uneducated I was back then.
HIV/AIDS stepped on my doorstep about twenty five years ago with a family friend. Her husband gave her HIV and later died. Again I was shocked, mainly due to miseducation. I had never heard of a husband giving the disease to his wife. However after learning more about the disease I found many women contract the disease from their husbands.
My friend is still living, praise God. She has good medicine and she changed her way of living. She’s probably healthier than some of us who think we are.
She’s one of the happiest people I know. She knows her purpose in life. She’s a caretaker of cats. She takes in sick cats and nurses them back to health. It’s amazing to me because I believe the stray cats communicate to others about her, because they show up on her doorstep. She makes them well and a lucky family adopts them.
Today is national HIV/AIDS day. My prayers of strength and courage go up for those who have this disease.
I say to those who think as I did, open your eyes and see this disease affects you and your community. Just because you don’t personally know someone who has it doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect you. Learn about HIV/AIDS, talk about it in your communities, in your churches. It does exist and I pray one day with the help from God it won’t.
Tuesday, January 31, 2006
In Memory Of - Coretta Scott King
I’m saddened to hear of the death of Coretta Scott King. A woman I highly admired. The wife of Martin Luther King, she stood beside him as he became a great leader. When he was assassinated, instead of going back to a normal life, she took up her husband cause.
She lived an amazing life and I know she will be missed.
Thank you Mrs. King for all your hard work, may we continue to live up to you and your husband’s dream.
There is a guestbook on line for Mrs. King
http://www.legacy.com/Guestbook.asp?Page=Guestbook&PersonId=16561044
Obituary For Mrs. King
Saturday, January 28, 2006
Challenger
Where were you Jan 28, 1986?
Would you believe I was in Orlando Florida? I'd just graduated from bootcamp and was going to school there. The Challenger had been schedule earlier for take off and they kept canceling take off because of problems.
I honestly believe the Lord was trying to tell them something but they wouldn't listen.
I was in the commissary shopping when people started rushing to where the t.v. were on display. We didn't know what was happening. Someone said the space shuttle had exploded. We all were in denial until we saw for ourselves.
I'm grateful I didn't witness it first hand as we had planned. I don't think I could have handle seeing it explode. Seeing it on the t.v. sent chills down my spine. It still does because I knew there were people on that shuttle and how much their families lost that day.
My sympathy goes out to the family and everyone who was touched by this tragedy.
I'm glad we are keeping their memories alive and hopefully inspiring others to want to be astronauts. I think they would want that.
Would you believe I was in Orlando Florida? I'd just graduated from bootcamp and was going to school there. The Challenger had been schedule earlier for take off and they kept canceling take off because of problems.
I honestly believe the Lord was trying to tell them something but they wouldn't listen.
I was in the commissary shopping when people started rushing to where the t.v. were on display. We didn't know what was happening. Someone said the space shuttle had exploded. We all were in denial until we saw for ourselves.
I'm grateful I didn't witness it first hand as we had planned. I don't think I could have handle seeing it explode. Seeing it on the t.v. sent chills down my spine. It still does because I knew there were people on that shuttle and how much their families lost that day.
My sympathy goes out to the family and everyone who was touched by this tragedy.
I'm glad we are keeping their memories alive and hopefully inspiring others to want to be astronauts. I think they would want that.
Friday, January 27, 2006
James Frey
As a reader who do we trust?
What the publisher classifies the book as?
What the writer calls the book?
Mr. Frey’s story now makes me wonder about the other non-fiction I’ve read. I guess that’s the sad part about this incident. Who do we trust? When you tell me it’s called non-fiction because it’s the truth, but it’s OK to embellish it a little. Isn’t that a little white lie?
If that’s the case it should be called true-life fiction.
As a writer we want good publicity about our books, however sometimes bad publicity can push a sell too. This publicity will send Mr. Frey book back to the printer press, to me that’s unfair.
I guess I can say that, I didn’t buy the book before and I definitely don’t plan on buying it later. OK maybe if its at the dollar store.
What the publisher classifies the book as?
What the writer calls the book?
Mr. Frey’s story now makes me wonder about the other non-fiction I’ve read. I guess that’s the sad part about this incident. Who do we trust? When you tell me it’s called non-fiction because it’s the truth, but it’s OK to embellish it a little. Isn’t that a little white lie?
If that’s the case it should be called true-life fiction.
As a writer we want good publicity about our books, however sometimes bad publicity can push a sell too. This publicity will send Mr. Frey book back to the printer press, to me that’s unfair.
I guess I can say that, I didn’t buy the book before and I definitely don’t plan on buying it later. OK maybe if its at the dollar store.
ONE DAY LORD
My friend Marilynn Griffith’s book PINK comes out next month. I received a copy of it yesterday in the mail. It was a nice surprise because; I received an advance copy last year. So I wasn’t expected to receive the real book.
I opened it and on the front page were recommendations from authors and book review sites. Right there in black print was a blurb from moi. It was so neat to see my name in a book. Yes, I’ve done blurbs before but for some reason this one, hit home for me.
I ran into the den and told my kids my name was in a book. They saw my name and began to scream and jump and down, like I was a celebrity. Even my husband was impressed.
For a few moments, I had a glimpse of what’s it will feel like when my name is on the cover.
One day Lord
Congrats to Mary on her new book. I give it 4 STARS. It will definitely keep your interest. Go out and by a few for you and your friends.
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